/b/ i have a problem and i need help. some context, i am objectively hot (not humble flexing, just setting the scene, pic rel) but idfk know how to get men to approach me. if they ever do, i’m a great flirt, that’s not the issue. i’m “mysterious,” “alluring,” “intimidating,” all quotes FROM men that i know have been attracted to me, and all of which i kind of like being, but guys often go for my bubbly friends first.
but i don’t think it’s bc i’m trans, either, bc i find chasers going for the more femcel girl-failure less-passing more-clocky baby tgirls (or even femboys) too.
but then, like, wtf is up with that? why don’t men want to talk to me?