What are some issues that make it difficult for a guy to cum during sex? I can cum easy using my own hand when jacking off to hentai games but it takes forever to cum with a woman. I'm not joking. It's a problem. My first thought it was overcorrecting for anxiety over thinking I'd cum too fast so I tightened up too much to compensate. Or that I'm too used to my hand. Yes, I'm attracted to real women. I can stay hard while fucking or getting my cock sucked. I just can't feel that specific sensation that makes me bust. Not in a reasonable amount of time.