They should get a nice, clean, functional haircut like bimmy

I had a bpd ex,she got divorced, she got remarried and also now is looking anorexic, they are a train wreck, just ignore them, it's an illusion, imagine being 15 years deep into a mortgage and she pulls some shit or you have kids, the nightmare it would cause, it's a blessing to break up from them. They never have good lives either, they remain crazy forever, let them rot.