>Marrying other men's leftovers

Imagine watching old pictures of your late 20s or 30s fiancé when she was younger.
Look at how incredibly beautiful she used to be, and what you're left with now.
All those years at her peak she spent them getting railed by other men, and you're supposed to be content with their leftovers.

Couldn't be me.

NO HYMEN, NO DIAMOND.