I feel like there's a reasonable middle ground between "blow up sex doll" and "straight out of the women's penitentiary"
Reminds me of when pic related was in Xenoblade 3 and people had a meltdown because this was tame compared to what they were doing in Xenoblade 2.
Probably a bad example she still looks like a porn star but you get my point, it's actually hard to strike a balance so it's not surprising people just lean hard in one direction.