narcissists do not argue to resolve problems, they argue to self-inflate. they turn logic into slop, and even if victims like me provide detailed clarification, they shamelessly ignore it to parrot the same irrelevant self-serving inventions over and over again, doubling down by the mantra « n * false = 1 * true ». they believe if the victim is defending herself, that they are holding onto something important, because they are dogs who don’t know how to let go after attacking someone. they are pure waste of time, but i’ve accepted the risks when venting on this thread this time because i knew the type of predictable aggressive personalities i was dealing with. in non-ironic settings, the best way to handle narcissists is to disengage and avoid them, because they are like mosquitos, they are a omnipresent inconvenience in society.

i do not have to defend myself or to explain anything to those who are not legitimately interested in truth. those who want to understand, will understand.