WTI sub 70 this week

so today I had sex with a virgin (I posted a thread about it a week or so ago) and I totally forgot how much of a hassle it is.
she was suffering and biting her knuckles almost the first 30 minutes of us fucking, I kinda felt bad, I'm used to girls enjoying the whole time with me, not just the last 15-20 minutes
anyways, she told me she has another virgin friend and considering it all she thinks she might as well lose it with me than with others (I guess they heard horror stories about dudes being too rough with newbies).
I'm deeply torn because that friend is also cute and of course I love being the first but also the sex itself is kinda meh compared to sex with someone who is not in pain while receiving a penis inside of them.
What should I do.