pic rel did it twice to me (I'm retarded I know) and the second time she was giggling on the phone getting ready for a date while I begged her crying, she wasn't a generic mean stacy either so it felt worse, my brain wiring has been messed up since.

I would say that porn made it worse but If it were easier for people like us to be better socially acclimated then we wouldn't be using porn much in the first place, it's a problem on top of another problem.