as a fembot, is it gay to want to have a bf that acts like a mommy? that nurtures me and takes care of me and acts all sweet and lovey dovey? i usually see gentle femdom and i want that to happen to me but im not a dude. and im not gay so i think it would be splendid if a man did that. would that emasculate him too much or would he genuinely enjoy doing it? ive never really spoken to men 1 on 1 before outside of anonymous conversations and posting so i dont really know.