i've been trying to find a sugar daddy to help me pay for ffs, but most guys either just want freebies or they ghost me

am i too ugly for this or is there some way to find rich chasers?

i love my bf! he is sooo nice to me and he removes my brainworms and he makes me send him nudes so he can compliment my body and he paid for my hrt and he's older than me. i loveee him so much!

do any of y'all boyfriends switch up constantly between degrading bdsm stuff to typical affirming nice guy stuff. i love him but i'm confused sometimes ;3