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I usually just slip it in between more manly action stuff like Berserk or Lupin or Fist of the North Star or Golden Kamuy or whatever, and more benign mainstream anime like Dungeon Meshi. When picking your "front" it helps to pick something that still has manga volumes or new stuff coming out.
Am I getting some merch of my favorite anime lesbians? Sure, but I'm also getting Hot Toys' new James Bond "Commando" figure. I'm playing yuri VNs on Steam but it's barely gonna register compared to how many hours I'm putting into TF2 or boomer shooters and as long as I frag some noobs with the bros every once in a while nobody's ever asked any questions.
It's like an investment portfolio, yurifagging is your basic index fund but you gotta sometimes play up the more conventional weeb angle or just generic nerd shit.

Also my yuri folder is buried underneath the decoy curated gigabytes of lesbian porn on my hard drive.