>>33221117
my husband asked for a separation last week because I criticized his drunk driving. Only time it legitimately scared me yet he compared it to the time his narcissistic dementia riddled father falsely accused him of stealing the father's pills and abusing him. Didn't say anything mean, just wtf you are in the wrong lane and weaving everywhere. When he drinks he puts words in my mouth I didn't say. Last year he verbally berated me on Valentine's day for something I didn't say. Sometimes I think I should leave but houses are stupid expensive and he said he would kill himself if I did. Today he got mad at me because someone was walking on the property at 3am. I said, well few years ago I asked about cameras on the property (he didn't put them up). He got mad that I brought it up, then got mad that I didn't understand what is involved in setting cameras up (he never explained it to me). I don't nag, but I feel damned if I do, damned if I don't. Either way he gets mad at me.