>you're appreciative of your fans
>you make yourself look cute for them
>you speak all cutely for them
>you tell them how much you missed them after every stream
>you claim that you are "their loving (insert horse shit adjective) vtuber (god forbid you say "idol")"
>you accept their money blindly
>you build an entire second life around them (if you're mentally well), they become your whole life if you're mentally unwell

>AND you have a significant other
>whom you tell them you love them
>whom you share actual personal feelings with
>whom you have intimate, physical moments with
>whom you probably live with
>whom you think of starting a life with, in the long term
>whom you genuinely support?

Well fuck me I guess, literally, because you sound like you're 1 step away from being a trollop in its physical sense.
It's ok, your hubby can watch, too.