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4/2/2025, 7:34:46 AM
>>8099912
Dude, getting a diagnosis for ADHD in your mid twenties is quite the journey but you might just find the missing link. It will not solve the puzzle but will set you out for a new journey.
I've been diagnosed at 26 and have started medication shortly after, now going on for 1 1/2 Years.
In my experience trying to better yourrself, interact with your surroundings, keeping realtionships etc. feels like a Variant ofthe Einstein quote about Insanity. You dont go insane by trying the same thing repeatedly and expecting a diffrent result. Having undiagnosed adhd and wanting to better yourself feels like trying EVERY possible thing, yet being condemned to the same outcome.
Getting a diagnosis, medication or any other reasonable treatment for this neural disorder won’t switch life to easymode, but allow you to face it, rather than support the avoidance when consulting your resentments.
Feeling like you've wasted so much time may not go away, but understanding how and why allows you to be more at ease with it.
Being able to reduce impulsivity and getting the ability to attend is likely to reduce impluse buying or increase your income.
In my expericene my social skills have not been a direct improve after learning to live with my diagnosis and meds. But seeing how i actually can be on time, focus on things that matter, get work done etc. i've been more confident and let me have my social interacions not solely rely on self depricating jokes as a coping mechanism.
You propably have it burnt in your brain through school life how insufferable it is to sit on homework you just cant seem to focus on and people telling you, that "you JUST need to to it, sitting still for those 10 minutes IS NOT HARD".
I've had my first meds right during my bachelor thesis. Going from that school and uni experience to my girlfirend coming to me and saying "you've been at your desk writing and reading for about 5 hours now. Thought that topic wasnt that interesting"
You will make it
Dude, getting a diagnosis for ADHD in your mid twenties is quite the journey but you might just find the missing link. It will not solve the puzzle but will set you out for a new journey.
I've been diagnosed at 26 and have started medication shortly after, now going on for 1 1/2 Years.
In my experience trying to better yourrself, interact with your surroundings, keeping realtionships etc. feels like a Variant ofthe Einstein quote about Insanity. You dont go insane by trying the same thing repeatedly and expecting a diffrent result. Having undiagnosed adhd and wanting to better yourself feels like trying EVERY possible thing, yet being condemned to the same outcome.
Getting a diagnosis, medication or any other reasonable treatment for this neural disorder won’t switch life to easymode, but allow you to face it, rather than support the avoidance when consulting your resentments.
Feeling like you've wasted so much time may not go away, but understanding how and why allows you to be more at ease with it.
Being able to reduce impulsivity and getting the ability to attend is likely to reduce impluse buying or increase your income.
In my expericene my social skills have not been a direct improve after learning to live with my diagnosis and meds. But seeing how i actually can be on time, focus on things that matter, get work done etc. i've been more confident and let me have my social interacions not solely rely on self depricating jokes as a coping mechanism.
You propably have it burnt in your brain through school life how insufferable it is to sit on homework you just cant seem to focus on and people telling you, that "you JUST need to to it, sitting still for those 10 minutes IS NOT HARD".
I've had my first meds right during my bachelor thesis. Going from that school and uni experience to my girlfirend coming to me and saying "you've been at your desk writing and reading for about 5 hours now. Thought that topic wasnt that interesting"
You will make it
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