how to reverse this? when im drunk, or on painkillers, i have zero desire for partnership. but when im stressed out, constantly using my executive functions my brain just defaults to 'fuck i want a gf'. any fix?

going to public gym was the best decision in my life
>people admire my physique
>lots of beautiful girls that aren't following the "oh ma gawd cweeps staring at me ass"
>everyone is friendly towards each other
>everyone is helpful (including me)
>became more social with everyone
>surrounded by likeminded people
I'm just happy about gym and I wish it were optimal to be there for 3 hours. Do you prefer homegym or public gym? why?