>Dating white guys as a Latina woman has honestly been a really positive surprise.

>Not in a “better or worse” way- just in ways that have been unexpectedly comforting or meaningful to me

>1.) the way they communicate is different - in a good way. There’s a calmness, a clarity. No games, no avoiding tough feelings. Just real conversations and a genuine effort to understand where I’m coming from. It’s made it easier - and safer - for me to open up.

>2.) They dive into my culture with so much curiosity. From trying every dish at family dinners to learning cute phrases to impress my grandma - the effort goes beyond politeness. It’s their way of showing love, and it means a lot.

>3.) There’s no pressure to “play a role.” He respects my independence, cheers on my goals, and helps out without needing recognition. There’s no weird power imbalance, just mutual support. It feels like a partnership, not a performance.

>This is just my personal experience, but it’s been healing, empowering, and honestly… kind of dreamy <3

Have any /int/ posters who have dated white guys had similar experiences?