Tell her that 99% of EOD work is boring as shit, done in garrison/at home, and safer than many other military jobs simply because the people doing are better trained, crewed with smarter people, and largely self-supervised (rather than being thrown into dumb shit with other semi-retard adrenaline junkies)

Do not let her use bomb-squad movies as her guide, any more than Lethal Weapon is how most policing is conducted.

Also, they get paid more.