What are these "red flags"? Not being tall enough? Not having enough wealth? Why can't women accept that most men are plumbers, electricians, cooks et cetera..
Think of all the boomer women who married these men, lived long happy lives and are still married. Aren't modern women missing out? Why are they making such poor life decisions? Most self-avowed "feminists" are frauds who don't really care about women's rights, they are demagogues who exploit their fears to get more hits, views, sales, sell more books or whatever, social media gave them a platform which women are glued to for hours every day and we are now a literal decade in to the indoctrination process. Could that be it?