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Now, according to custom, I'm supposed to tell you off for waifuing the >nohooves edition of this character. We're a little starved for genuine enthusiasts at the moment, though, so my heart wouldn't be in it - yes, you're in the 'we'll take anyone we can get' category, so you'll have to take that as you will. Just pretend that I called you a big faggot, or something. Y'know, just for appearances. Nothing personal whatsoever.
With that out of the way: I think your heart is absolutely in the right place. Lucid dreaming as a method of communion is something of a meme, truth be told, as is tuppermancy. In truth, they're both reliant on your imagination. Through either method, you'll meet your waifu as you imagine her, rather than some abstract, totally distinct 'true' form, which is what I think most people are hoping for when they start trying these methods out. This is all to say that you're achieving basically the same outcome just by meditating on her and reaching a deeper understanding of her. Sure, dreams and thoughtforms provide more tactile results, but through them, you'll still be getting the exact same Ponk that you've spent all this time thinking and fantasizing about. She's already right there with you, and the methods you're trying to access are just ways of letting more of your senses access her.
To summarise: if the meme methods of getting closer to her don't entirely pan out, then don't worry about it too much. They're not essential to loving her; they're just a few of many methods through which you can connect with her, the rest of which you've already considered. If all else fails, all you need to do is keep her at the front of your mind, and let her presence inform your actions from there. Shouldn't be too hard, if you're committed to her - which I don't doubt that you are.
I'm not proofreading any of this stream-of-consciousness drivel I just spat out. I sincerely hope it makes some kind of sense.