I've been absorbing 'reality transurfing' for the past few months, and I think excess potential is unironically one of the most useful concepts from it that easily applies to neville's style of loa as well, and clears up the idea of detachment.
I've experimented with relationships, and the less importance I put onto it regardless of anything that happens, the smoother it goes. My girlfriend, for example, is a psycho bitch type and we'd have huge problems and arguments in the past, then I stopped caring and now even during an argument she just magically goes back to normal after a day and has become less neurotic. I have no idea how or why it happens apart from the lack of importance I put on the relationship when in the past I would shovel all of my so-called energy towards it out of illusory importance. I don't necessarily believe in concepts like spiritual "energy", but what vadim says about energy and how (something he borrows from castaneda) impeccability being acting without wasting energy resulting in more freedom and comfort is definitely true.
