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>>513329983
I understand why you feel this way, and you do have a point
But at the same time, it is not my responsibility to be her psychologist, i tried helping her, i truly did, i even offered couples therapy over this, on many occasions i gave her gifts, even gave her a cat (she later gave it to her mom).
Thing is, you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped, you don't save a drowning man, and honestly, her depression was latching onto me too, i gained weight, lost my sleep schedule, started being reclusive and a shut in. I lost in some hobbies altogether.
All of this while being judged by her, i had to do it, helping her was taking a toll on me as well, and if i didn't, I'd end up just like her and she would just be the same.
Sometimes life fucks us over, I'm okay, I've gotten back in shape and have found new hobbies, i hope she gets herself back up too, i have hopes for her. Yet again rehab is hard.
