I'm so terminally online I didn't even know many men have never been complimented on their looks, not even by their girlfriends or wives. I'm a 33yo virgin and even I got compliments on my looks by strangers (mostly teenage girls and much older women) . But how do guys who never caught anyone's eye get girlfriends while I'm struggling to get a single one? Makes zero sense.

It used to happen to me as a scrawny 5'10 east asian kid during high school all the time. Now at 30 I can't even attract a 40 year old post-wall woman, but people told me it should get easier lol.