>>40909017
This poster has it closest to what I would say.
Lilith is the unseen architect of the veil. The thinking and perceiving component of the unconscious mind. The primordial maternal, history is an unbroken of wombs. She will help you, but for the weak would rather smother, engulf, immolate, reduce you to ashes she can devour, before she would experience the fear of losing her children. She has no true children, yet many children. She is like Lamashtu, rampaging and in despair having no children of her own.
All the BDSM sex succubus goddess stuff is tacked on by literalists. It's an artifact of the encoding. Made up.