really we should end the idea of elite schools and generally the idea that people should separate from their families to create a career or even just to make ends meet.
people are together all up to and through high school, then everyone separates. then you get a short time with some atomized people focused on their career and after graduation you separate.
no wonder people who meet someone new after so much separation trauma would end up fucking up so many relationships after that, healthy parental relationship or not.
and all of it really boils down to the need to have the freedom to live as far away from niggers as possible.