Men are like a rock.
Women are like a vine that climbs and surrounds said rock. Its their nature.

As a man you have to be solid, unmoving, with clear red lines and a strong foundation not easily swayed. Women, if theyre into you, will adopt you as their base and support and climb on you and surround you. Remember its their nature.

If youre weak and soft they will surround you and destroy you through the cracks of your caracter. If youre strong they will simply cover you and "decorate" your rock with their vines and further support you.

Its that simple. This is why betas cannot into women. Their foundation is shaky and unstable.

Thanks for listening to my TEDtalk, niggers.