I heard about this British guy who visites China and apparently he stepped on this guy's shoes in a bar, and it turns out the guy was some high ranking Chinese official. He was offended by this and he summoned his gang of Chinese thugs or whatever and they beat the shit out of this British tourist for stepping on his shoes. He had to go to the hospital.

How come incels believe that females who refuse to approach them on their own behalf are somehow violating an unwritten law they believe women should know?
Could it be that a dissonance between reality and the incel's internal narrative is the cause of all their suffering?