>>33659893
>I missed this before
This is probably the best summation of my ethos about picking women up in your daily life. Thank you
I discovered this all by happenstance and later informed it through some of the early red pill stuff.
In my situation, I was homeless in PDX at 21 and had no place to sleep besides park benches in February, let alone eat besides the shelters/feeds. Before this, I had a few gfs but now my entire life was at stake. So, I created an extroverted persona by necessity and just started to hitting up as many people as I could to be friendly. Because Portland was much smaller back in the day, I’d walk back and forth between neighborhoods (Hawthorne/Belmont to Nob Hill, PSU to Clackamas county, etc), and just started to treat everyone the way I wanted to be. I wrote zines and one-sheets, and hid them on the MAX and in the library. Even just this got me laid, albeit with a troubled girl. I met a dude at a coffeeshop and he turned out to drive the streetcar, so then I got free rides and girls I was friends with were like, “How do YOU know him?” Like I said, being social (and also got me laid).
I also became incredibly social in attending events and putting myself out there. I’d start to recognize people from other places, and I noticed that I’d be pre-vetted or blocked based on my behavior. Soon, I started to bring friends together, invite them to weird gatherings, and start getting dates or adventures. We always had something going on, so women were curious to tag along.
Then, I started to get a reputation as a musician once I got housed (I was living in office space) and we started to get a following (and an invitation to open for Daniel Johnston).
Eventually I had to leave during the recession, so I decided to busk across America. Armed with my new social skills, I tried them out everywhere and crossed the country at least 6 times. Then I met a girl and we dated for 5 years and traveled the world.
Always be friendly.