There are tiers to communication
4chan is the lowest tier of communication where nobody ever has a reputation and everyone is shitty all the time.
X is better because you can block and ignore assholes, and it has a system of identification to verify if a person is a real person and not just a bot.
Discord is even better because you can run your own private discord giving you total dictatorial power to remove your enemies and only allow your trusted allies in.
Real life in person communication is the highest form of communication because face to face there are dire consequences. If you offend me, the police wont arrive to save you in time. My justice is swift and direct. In person you have to treat me like a man, with respect and dignity, or you will regret it.