>>40696320
>not shitposting: has anyone had good results from detransitioning?
I have yet to see a single case, but I have not explicitly looked for it. The most common isssue I see are on-off death spirals. Aka
>start hrt
>dysphoria goes down
>hey I am not dysphoric
>stop hrt
>dysphoria goes up
>repeat
So I gotta ask why you wanna detrans.
>>40704419
>>40704440
Heya, valley.
>it just doesn't particularly do anything it seems
Yeah, no reciprocation from it.
>she has at least made some remarks about how good she's feeling with me
You can tell her (repeatedly even) how much you like it to hear her feelings about things, that it helps a great deal, and see if she can adjust her behavior from that. Try to push that for a while. Be explicit about that need. Say it helps with insecurities.
>first ""female"" partner as a tranny
You're right I won't be able to add much but.. from what I can tell it sounds like impostor syndrome? You feel like you don't qualify enough as a woman, so to say. I think it's good you tell me, at least. It is an ongoing fight many people here face.
I think the things you list (friends, life, vagina) are all completely circumstantial. You miss how you yourself would most likely select for people. It's about what you as a person are actually like. It might help to scrutinize things from a more neutral pov. I think you devalue yourself and thus allow others to make actually very mean judgments because you are biased against yourself. For example, if you imagined her with any other girl, you wouldn't imagine her on the lookout for someone better, right? Because then you would be aware that a shared history are a core aspects of what makes a relationship special, right?
>I'm sorry you'll have to read all this but it also feels nice to be able to share this
It is important I think. Also, I am glad you got meds that help you with your insomnia!