>>33623655
>can't stop wishing she would dress more goth or at the very least dress like it
let your desires for this kind of aesthetic be known. Be truthful in life and it will be easier. If she can't be that way, maybe she isn't for you. To be honest, I had a girl who had a completely different fashion sense than my own. I was more modern, cityboy concrete jungle, urban style and she was more countryside barefoot hippie flower girl. I wished she would wear jewelry or adornment like choker necklaces and pop-girl long fingernails and more piercings with dyed hair as that is what I fetishize and find attractive. But that is not how she was and she didn't like it when she was forced to do it for my sake.
>in the bedroom.
this is the place where you could tell her. If she dressed like this you would find her irresistible. I dont think she would be averse to that if you let it be known.