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Women experience negative emotion at a mich higher rate than men. Lesbian relationships tend to score very high on measures of emotional intimacy, interdependence, which occurs much sooner than in straight couples. Hence the "uhaul" phenomenon.
This closeness can be positive, but it can also amplify conflict and reduce boundaries, making disagreements feel more threatening or personal.
Studies suggest that women engage more in verbal confrontation and are more likely to use emotional expression during conflict.
When both partners use those strategies, disagreements can become cyclical rather than resolved, increasing volatility.
This can often lead to violence rather than diffusion of the conflict.
A strong, powerful man often reduces the risk of conflict. Weak men resort to violence against women, and dykes are basically like overly emotional weak men.
Two women may also engage in more verbal processing of conflict, which can escalate rather than defuse tension in some cases.