I grew up as a repressed transbian who got treated like a fag by homophobic cissciety because of feminine appearance, voice, mannerisms. Obviously, that means I developed an understanding and sympathy for cis homos.
Yet the cis gays have no understanding whatsoever of the struggle of being a tranny in transphobic cissciety. And many of them have no interest in trying to understand.
If you're one of those transphobic gays, I recommend that you count your blessings and try to have some sympathy for people with a different experience than you.