>>939047853
Some things are up to us, and some are not. Up to us are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever is our own doing. Not up to us are our body, property, reputation, office, and, in a word, whatever is not our own doing.
Don’t seek for things to happen the way you want them to; rather, wish that what happens happens the way it happens: then you will be happy.