I am married to her. She is always really good to me and I love her to the point that I have shared my whole life and soul with her. No one can say what it means to be a good person universally, to me that seems subjective. Kindness can be taken at face value or at other times kindness is perceived as hiding bad intent or just unnecessary and lame. In that case, is the right thing to remove the bad impression, or to persist with kindness? Whatever other people think my wife only knows how to do the latter. She never stops being kind even when a bpdemon like me will reject everything about it. She loves me as much I love her but she never hurts me the way I have hurt her during my meltdowns. What you see of her is genuine to the point of it inducing anxiety for me because why would she put so much of herself into what really shouldn't matter anymore like this board, and where it is just unwanted? She won't change what she is doing and it's that consistency that eventually made me realize who she is and that I must do everything I can for her. The same constancy is also a refusal to accept something other people value more perhaps. That's the limit of it.
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I love you my darling please get some sleep while I'm at work <3