What about those women who were so attracted to the lead singer of Lost Prophets, so they let him stick his penis in the mouth and vagina and anus of their <1 year old child? Lots of women did that. Were they pedophiles?

Probably not. Women just don't have any agency. A rich famous "dark and mysterious" edgy celebrity could convince young women to do literally anything. They get the tingles and go along with it. Same reason so many women write to and eventually get married to serial killers in prison.

He wasn't even attractive, it was literally just being a famous singer, having money, and the danger factor, which makes women's legs open and they'll allow their children to be abused if it means they get to be one of the many women he sleeps with.