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For some people, your family members are so ubiquitous in your life that you aren't as aware or attentive with them as you are with others, so you don't consider them to be fully-fledged people with their own thoughts, feelings, and agency. So when she says that the concept of a brother is someone who "lacks maleness", she really means that she hasn't taken the time to fully understand the sentience of her own brothers