There’s no gay men on this board but there’s a lot of lesbians with penises.

Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years now, we are both 30. We have a good life together, live in a big house, decent amount of money, work/life balance is good etc.

We talked about kids a while ago (probably like 5 years ago) and i know my bf is dead set on not wanting any. Me, on the other hand, am ambivalent. I feel like i might regret the decision to not have kids, because at points i get very into the idea of being a mother, and i think i would potentially be a good one aswell. Then at other times i feel the complete opposite. Like i would be the worst mother imaginable and that having a kid would ruin my life.

I have probably already waited too long, i am 30 after all. What are the odds that i would find an even better partner than my current one, who also happens to want to start a family within a couple of years? Its impossible..

I guess what im looking for is advice from anyone whos been in a similar situation.