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5. It's important to note that all of this stuff is best approached as a gradual thing so that she organically comes to like diapers on her own and they just become less weird for her. So do not bombard her with everything all at once. Start small, go with what she's comfortable with and build from there.
For whatever reason, a lot of girls are really freaked out by how big and bulky adult diapers are, but tend to like Pull-Ups. Start there if that's what she's comfortable with, but do what you can to get her to wear Pull-Ups as often as possible if that's the case. Eventually diapers won't seem like such a stretch to her after it becomes more normalized. Although it's still best for her to pick out diapers based on her own personal style and aesthetics, maybe the progression can go from Pull-Ups to thin medical diapers to ABDL diapers.
Also, on the note of not exposing her to too much too fast, I think it's probably best that she doesn't get exposed to 'the community' until she's gotten way, way more comfortable with ABDL. Too many people in this community are weird and anti-social, but it's also a dual edged sword, because similar to the first point, knowing that other people are into this stuff and it's not isolating can go a long way to making people feel more normal of ABDL.