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>was wondering what else can I do to increase this?
These relationships are give and take, but there's little point in dwelling on a spirit that treats you like that. A more practical exercise in the power disparity you are dealing with, shall we? Ward your home well and light a candle, or if you cannot light a candle, imagine one in your head. Now reach into the lower frequencies, realms, the Underworld, Hell, whatever you think is a lower plane of existence. Focus on a desert, barren of water as far as your astral self can see, feel the hot air across your soul, and let your mouth become parched. Listen to the winds, and you might hear the haggard breaths of a spirit condemned to wander indefinitely here. Approach it carefully, and hail it. You are full of life, vigor, and vitality. While it is sloven and desiccated, it will listen to your call. Ask the spirit if it would like a drink of water. Undoubtedly, the spirit will fall to its knees at the potential for relief. This is where you will ask for something in return, perhaps a name. All you have to do is simply make a libation, or you can drink the water, and the creature will sloppily lap up the water given it. Once the transaction is complete, return to your body, close the ritual and banish. This teaches a very important thing: always be the one in control, with the initiative, never become passive and wait for the magical to affect you. You'll never get far if you want to be the receptacle of whims and wants of powerful spirits, instead, be the one who is the object of desire.