I think I finally get what people mean when they say "change YOU / the 4D" instead of the 3D.
I used to think, "but isn't the whole point of this to change something in the real world, like your SP or money situation?" Yeah, from a normal perspective, sure. But loa doesn't work like that.
Trying to "change" the SP/3D = you're basically looking at the shit you don't want and trying to fix it. You're starting from the assumption that you don't have it, which just keeps you in that state.
Changing the 4D/yourself = you ignore whatever crap is going on in 3D and just focus on the story you want. You assume you already have it. That's why "circumstances don’t matter," because they only reflect your state.
The whole thing is literally about changing the stories you tell yourself about yourself, other people, and the world. You don't "fix" 3D, you replace the whole script in your head.
Yes, you can still get the SP. Yes, you can still get rich. Yes, you can change someone. But you do it by changing your state, not poking around in 3D trying to make it happen.
Basically stop trying to patch the current reality, just replace it with the one you want in imagination. That's the only thing you need to change, YOU.
Took me a while to get this, maybe it'll click for someone else too.