>be cisf
>join a few popular discords for BDSM or niche communities for similar topics
>pleasantly surprised to see hundreds and hundreds of different female names and ranks
>many lesbians too
>slowly realize that 80% of them are male (even when they have the "F" rank which is female???) when I start to check the picture channels or talk to them
>it's just an overwhelming amount of males clogging up everything

It's everywhere no matter where you go. Especially for bigger or popular places, but the niche hasn't been spared from this too.

This was not a thing just 10 years ago. It's so over.