>>521333763
Actually the decision to troon out came before the kid.
My wife is a bi girl which is partially how I met her to begin with as a kid. She always knew me as the "faggiest guy you'll ever meet that likes women" so it wasn't super crazy out there.
Anyways when I came out I offered for her to stay in our apartment for a year rent free if she wanted to seperate. Instead we agreed I'd wait two years so we could get her pregnant before I started hormones and surgery
I started hormones after we believed there was little risk of miscarriage, abnormalities or a stilbirth
Since me daughter has been born she has exclusively known me as her other mom

I'm a lot happier actually, I spent a lot of my youth praying to Yahweh to fix me or change me. When I got older I realized no help was coming so I tried me best to be a normal boy. From 13-22 I made the best of being a boy doing all the partying, making friends, doing music and art excelling at school, I was even one of the most laid kids in my school (its easy as hell if most of your friends are women and you have the same interests)
When 22 came I couldn't lean into androgynous shit anymore and got stuck living as a real man. Tried my best to make it work from 22-28 but I was suicidal and depressed the entire time.

Shits gone well, my wife and I are doing well, most of my Sicilian family is supportive now, my hair is fully regrowing or grown back and I have C Cups now at 150 lbs 5'10
At this point Id just like it if I passed a little better so my daughter doesnt miss out on anything or have to deal with discrimination
My wife and I do have our problems but it mostly comes down to stuff like I'm way better at domestic stuff than her but unfortunately I'm also the one who is best at making money so I'm stuck as the breadwinner, at least I got to save enough money so she could be a stay at home for the first 2.5 years of our daughter's life.