honestly i would be fine with a top bf who went down on me. that doesn't make me dysphoric and in fact the idea of a guy pushing me onto the bed and getting between my thighs and making me scream sounds great. the issue is none of them do it to pleasure me, in my experience. its not about turning me into a quivering mess, its more about their fantasy of sucking dick. and they all look like picrel. like they do it so unsexy like a puckered fish

honestly i would be fine with a bf who went down on me. that doesn't make me dysphoric and in fact the idea of a guy pushing me onto the bed and getting between my thighs and making me scream sounds great. the issue is none of them do it to pleasure me, in my experience. its not about turning me into a quivering mess, its more about their fantasy of sucking dick. and they all look like picrel. like they do it so unsexy like a puckered fish