I dunno what you mean under success. If all you care about is finding partner/sex, then mayhaps. Female aspies probably have much higher chance of acquiring one.

But in terms of general life quality its all the same.
You will never have a stable, normal job.
You will never have friends.
You are unlikely to generally have enough money for any sort of fulfilling life. Men that would date rather masculine nd women are usually themselves broke losers.
You fail at your assigned gender, and thus will forever suffer from alienation. You will also likely never connect to your partner either because such internal struggle will be completely foreign to them if they are an autist man, or everything else will be unrelatable to you if he is some normie tranny.