>>33882675

It's all about sending out a flare.

A loud and clear marker that will attract in those kind of women online. You do this through crafting a profile that makes it very clear. Use internet coded language in your bio - just enough to signal you are down with the culture but don't over do it. Make sure that in your pictures you are signalling through activity / clothing your specific cultural credentials - but make it appealing and accessible to women. Maybe include a meme. For your music, a recognisable cooked internet meme song.

The trick with dating apps when employing this strategy is to not overdo it and keep the audience in mind. It needs to just be there and seem natural. Not forced or trying too hard. It requires very little for the message to be communicated. To shout and scream it will appear obvious and desperate - women are very adept at reading visual cues, they will categorise you as relevant or not relevant pretty quickly.

In terms of the cultural interests on display, I'd say be cautious of making it too guy culture centered. Do them the favour of leaving your obscure, boys-only media out of it and pick things that they can connect and share a laugh with you over in the opening messages. Think Pokemon, cats and rick n morty. Not Diablo 2, warhammer and million dollar extreme. Keep it true obviously but soften the optics enough so that it becomes appealing. There's no point in branding yourself so hard with guy culture that it nerfs your capacity to find someone.

Going down this route will limited the scope of your relevance to the wider tinder base. But it will intensify the interest of those who do swipe on you.