>>12604305
yeah, it blurs the line completely. I mean my experience is obviously not everyones, you can enjoy anime with literally 0 problems. I was always a dude who was into feminine things and that's what ended up getting me groomed, and now these "girly" things serve a different, destructive problem in my mind and gives me problems today. And the you're right cause the hateful transphobic group makes it worse too cause they just push you away and shit on you for just being yourself and it can make you closer to the groomers. Although, I think the edgy hateful side kind of grooms young men just as much aswell. I'm just gonna try and focus on accepting myself and try to stay away from extremes and try to not embed myself in this dysphoria

>>509933175
>and trying to pretend he's "just asking questions".
This is why I don't bother engaging with my friends. If they ask why I waste my time giving a genuine answer as they just spout back pre-packaged NPC talking points and assume things that are not even true.