>>41089938
Something i learned from my experience in this community is that you should really be on your own, and if you adhere to someone else, let it be someone that have compatible goals with yours, a team, a group of friends, or something. But never compromise your personal goals for nothing in the world. The only way to win in this is to hold your higher ideal as the most sacred thing, the reason why you even do anything and everything, including this, so you never end up losing your way. This is why a lot of Neville followers lose themselves in the first place. Here's a great perspective from an former Oneirosophist:
>I agree with xoxoyoyo. The idea is not to 'compare' yourself with others. I don't know if that was ever your intention, but you will inevitably end up unconsciously comparing yourself even if that is not what you want. That is human nature.
>I agree it is quite interesting to read about other's experiences but its more along the lines of "entertainment" for lack of a better word, rather than actually allowing myself to let other's experiences set a benchmark for me. If the idea is to simply read up on other people's experiences then maybe we can make a seperate sub for it. I personally believe this sub is best suited to discussion about onerisophy rather than describing personal experiences. But as mentioned before the idea isn't to look at other people's experiences so that you can get an idea of "progress". I think it can negatively affect your personal journey with oneirosophy when you begin to bring other people and their experiences into it. It is about you and only you. It is important to remember that.
>But it is enticing to read other's experiences. I believe I read one of your comments about one of your experiences and it was very interesting. But I'm not sure if that's the best thing to do. We are here to discuss not to advise or show. This is our own personal journey and we can only walk this path alone.
>>41089909
Yeah