Ignoring what certain family members might approve of or want to see, let's say a woman is rich, like she has over $1,000,000 saved up and she makes over $300,000 a year. This woman likely would view herself as having plenty of money. What kind of men is she likely going to go for? From what I've read, it seems like these wealthy women will just go for the man they perceive to be the most alpha. She may want to date a hunky firefighter or an MMA fighter over a nerdy lawyer. Her boyfriend may be older or younger than her, depending on her preferences, but she is effectively the sugar mommy.

How do you actually find a provider woman or sugar mommy? I know they exist and that men sometimes accidentally stumble upon them, but I want to know if there are any reliable ways to find such women.

From my research, you would essentially be her boyfriend in exchange for money (even if it's just financial security), but you would be very quiet about this fact. I figure most women wouldn't want to look at it like this, even though that would be what's going on. They'd still likely want you to be their alpha. Unless the woman is somehow clueless, there would likely be a gross disparity in looks. She would have a lot more money than you, so there would need to be a pretty substantial discrepancy in looks. You'd need to be a 6/10+ in his 20s, and this woman would likely be a 2 to 4/10 maximum in her 40s. I've been thinking about it, and from my experience, I bet women in their 30s with money would still be difficult for a man around a decade younger than them to get. The discrepancy in looks would need to be even larger; you'd need to be an 8/10+ hunky-looking man.

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I am 25. I actually did have a woman quite literally offer me a nice, big house in the country to stay at with a lot of land when I was 22, so I know this is possible. She was in her 40s and fairly obese. From this experience, I know that there are women out there who will essentially offer a nicer lifestyle in exchange for the company of a more attractive man that they would otherwise not be able to get.

I am actually mentally disabled. I have insomnia caused by OCD and emotional issues (too much anxiety, shame, and some excitement) that keeps me from being able to get nearly any job that doesn't require a lot of specialized skill. It would take me a paragraph or two to explain.

I am 5'11 and pretty muscular with no signs of aging in my face. I just need to lose a bit of fat. I believe I have decent facial genetics, and I even have so-called hunter eyes. There are two potential bodily/somatic flaws I'm going to have. I'm still just a bit fat, but by the time I turn 26, I should be lean and muscular. I might have some loose skin around my mid section, since I used to be morbidly obese (lower end), and I'm going to have a bit of gyno. The gyno was present back in high school long before I started taking roids.

With these states in mind, could I find an older woman, maybe mid 30s (around a decade older than me) who is a 3 or maybe even 4/10 who would be a provider for me? I could take care of the house, cleaning and decorating, doing the laundry, and cooking (My dad is a chef, so I'll be pretty good.) for her. She would just be the bread winner enabling my NEET life. I DO NOT need a wealthy woman. If she could afford a middle middle class lifestyle for me, then I would be happy. I do receive NEETbux, so I would be bringing in some income, but if she actually married me, all the free shit I get would disappear.