Actually a ship that involves yourself is inherently not a ship at all...
Shipping would mean that it's two entirely different individuals that you support wholeheartedly so saying things like "Me x [individual]" is merely just a crush rather than a ship... It's more akin to waifu/husbandoism than shipping.
For example a fujo/fudan is being a shipper whilst being a yume is not...
It's a mistake that I see the unenlightened make too often and I hate it...