>>33623731
when I was younger, I had anxiety about talking to women in general because my dad never taught me how. So I started challenging myself to talk and meet with stranger women in public settings. Literally just approaching them and attempting conversation. I failed many times, but there were also successful interactions. Eventually got over the anxiety from repeated practice and experience.
>hitting up beautiful women?
This is like a level-up from before. Once you got the hang of talking to below-average looking women and then average-looking, came the time to talk to the most desirable women. In certain settings like public spaces meant for socializing, it is more difficult; you face competition from other like-minded men who also want to talk to beautiful women. So the challenge comes with understanding specific socializing skills. Not only do you need to learn how to talk to beautiful women, you also have to learn how to defend yourself from other competitors who want to do the same. Its a high-skill type of deal. In other settings however, I would say it is not the case. In university for example- the setting is more relaxed and the competition is less fierce talking to pretty girls as other men aren't all trying to get her. Friend group social-outings also works for this as it is a small-enough group where competition wouldn't pose much challenge. Eventually, you will learn how to deal with beautiful women. Things like dealing with those with extremely high egos due to their beauty. Other aspects like being aware of your own person- able to remain intact even if a beautiful girl is rude to you or teasing you. Maybe being able to turn your attraction to them off: so that you could better filter and screen their personality instead. It's a whole game that needs constant skill checks and tests. You never really stop learning how in life as its a constant challenge. Beautiful girls are into pop-culture so you need to move the same.